Originally Posted By: sandi2
Detaching does not have to mean you are giving up on your S, not if you are going to "lovingly" detach and not if your plan is to save your M.

Not sure which link I posted, but here is one.

http://www.livestrong.com/article/14712-developing-detachment/


That's it Sandi. Thank you.

M 43
X 38
T 13
W moves out of home 11/2010
Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012
I request divorce 5/2012
W moves home 6/2012
Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015
I leave 3/2016
process of divorce