I understand the concept of a 180 (I read DB and DR, but am a bit confused on how to go about one. I'm not sure exactly what happened or why she suddenly "fell out of love." I never wanted a divorce and was willing to try anything. We went to two councilors (though it was obvious she'd already checked out by the second).
She told me in June that she was having feelings again. By the july she had a hysterectomy. A week after her surgery she filed for divorce.
I'd like to point out too-just so there is no misunderstanding-that there is no substance abuse or violence in our history.
