If we worked together on it we could seriously have this sorted out in a couple of months
OTOH, she may not be able to be on the same timetable. It may take her a lot longer than a couple of months. For some men, I think they just want to hurry up and have everything back to normal (nothing wrong wanting that), but in many cases...it is harder than expected...and takes longer than they thought it would--or should.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
