Hope it's not too late

[Denver_2010]

Allie - All I can say about the LBH and why he would wait until the bomb is dropped to do the right thing is this... we men are obstinate. Sometimes it takes a catastrophic even to make us wake up and realize what is actually going on around us. I can't tell you what to do, but if you are at all open to saving your marriage, give your H a chance to PROVE to you that any changes he makes are PERMANENT and for the RIGHT REASONS. If they are not, then things will most likely go back to the way they were. Only you can make the choice as to whether or not you give him this chance. I hope and pray that my wife give me this chance.