You need to call your lawyer. I don't know the law, but you are still married and this is crap!

Your children should not be around such a filthy situation.

I am so sorry you are going through this B2BAD.

I also advise you to breath and calm down. You need to be calm for your kids.

M: 42 - W: 41 - M: 18 - T: 23 - D:16 S:14
EA - July 2010
NC w/EA - Nov 2010
Piecing - Jan 2011
I ask for div - Jan 2012
Div papers filed - Mar 2012
I move out - July 2012
Divorce final - Nov 7, 2012