So, the last couple of weeks I was getting very excited. I know that it a BIG no no here. But he even told his mother's side of his family that I stopped down at his place to talk. He switched it around but I don't care what they think. D14 said first he was crying to his oldest brother saying that he loved their Dad then he said Lost came down to talk too. The brother just looked at him when he said about their Dad like WTH? See, none of H's siblings talk to their Dad since they were old enough to decide whether they wanted to see him or not. So I asked D14 if she knew if Pop was sick or something and she said not that she knew of, and then when H said about me being at his house all the kids got sent upstairs.
So I thought to myself, I bet they gave it to him. He hasn't spoke to his mother's side in over 13 years cause they were having a fit cause H wanted to adopt my S that was only 4 at the time. Now remember these 2 meaning his mother and sister are the ones that pushed me into marrying H. I didn't want to go down that road again yet in my life. I guess they thought once we got married I would just leave son somewhere.......they don't like any children that aren't blood related. So anyway, H told them both off and didn't speak to them until we were separated around a year. So I know they hate me and blame me for that part but H is the one. I told him not to do anything about it and just let it go but he wouldn't listen.
So when H called on Sat night after dropping D14 off I thought maybe it didn't go as bad as I thought with his family. I did tell H last Wed. when we were talking that I would talk to them if they were willing to talk to me. So I don't know if that's why he brought it up to them or what. And as far as him crying about his father I have NO clue about that either. I thought maybe he told them too that I was there and we were talking or maybe they went by H's place and saw my car and now his father is also mad. I can understand why his father and step-mother would be mad because I know of some of the lies that H told them about me so he wouldn't look like the bad guy.
