Hey, YOU are getting there! The detaching, I mean.
Its a process, and it comes in small bits and pieces. There will be days that you are totally attached to your spouse' coming and goings. Right now, with Christmas and D11's bday coming up, I am again turning into an emotional wreck.
Hang in there, go shopping, and have a good Christmas!
Me:49 H:45 D:12 M:14 T:18 Bomb: 6/26/10 EA: 9/3/10, fizzled out slowly, now ??? 11/5/11 Retrouvaille Finally piecing.... Its peaceful at last, but we got a looong way to go