Girl, you are getting sound advice from many more experienced and sage than I am.

But I wanted to tell you that I want to be just like you when I grow up! You are such an inspiration. You love yourself and others tremendously and it comes across loud and clear. I am like you in many ways and I identify with your attitude, your spirit and your thoughts of empathy for others.

The thing about life is - it's not about what happens to us; it's about how we handle what happens to us. And the way you are handling this is awesome and amazing. What your H and OW did is almost secondary to those of us who read your words. It's tragic and wrong on so many levels what they did, but the big story, the main event of this thread - is how well-balanced, well-adjusted and well-loved (by yourself!) you are.

Merry Christmas, darling!


Me: 33, H: 32
M: 12 years T: 13 years
No kids
D-Day: 7/2009
Separated: 10/12/10
Future Unknown
GITS

"There's a fire starting in my heart, reaching a fever pitch and it's bringing me out the dark." - Adele