Kaboom

[girlfromipanema]

I hear ya. To be honest, and maybe I shouldn't be hear because how I feel, but I could care less about DBing to save my marriage. ;-) Maybe I DB to see if I WANT to save it? I came here for support and perspective, which is one thing I can for sure count on!

(((((girl)))))

I really like that it is already clear that you don't tie your happiness to him. That's such a huge step, and so many struggle with it for so long!

Gosh, I've read some really sad posts from some very sad people. I can't even comment on them because I see these posters have been here for quite some time and I don't see them making strides in accepting, loving, changing themselves. They are stuck and no matter how many posters try to steer them in the right direction, they circle back to square one. They remind me of OW's boyfriend. They don't necessarily deserve to be in their situation, but if they don't take steps to fix their internal issues, they will be stuck forever.