I guess my point is that I wouldn't be cutting too much slack. A six year affair that continues after it was found out the first time isn't an accident, it isn't a "mistake". It's a long term pattern of deceit, lying, willful disrespect, and even potential disregard for his spouse's life.
I hear you and agree with you completely. The trouble I'm having is making sense of it all... I want to make the right decision for my future.
By the way, you commented yesterday about not being in the right frame of mind for DBing. My opinion and experience is that DBing is more about rescuing oneself rather than one's marriage. Putting the DB principles to work, helped me become a more beautiful person to me. And my love of self is the best gift of all.
M: 37 H: 36 Married: Aug 13, 2004 Decision to Divorce: July 20, 2008 Reconciled: September 2008 Current: Ambivalence
