W and I went out last night. I picked her up at her place and we drove to an indoor go-karting venue. The conversation on the way was light and enjoyable. We spent about a half hour racing around before we decided to head back towards her house to get a bite to eat.
Had dinner and again the conversation was light and enjoyable. No discussion about our M, the A, or anything that would be considered R talk.
During the course of the night I opened her door for her each time we had to drive somewhere. I would occasionally put my hand on the small of her back as we were walking.
After dinner I took her back to her place. We were outside her condo saying goodnight and she leaned in to hug and kiss me. We hugged and kissed for a little bit and then said good night.
There were a few comments from W that stick out from last night. Before she got out of the car she said that it felt good to go out with me and not being going out "as parents". We never did a good job of putting each other first after having children. Another comment she made was that she wanted to take it slow and get to know me again.
M 33 | W 34 | Kids: S4, S3 M: 5/28/05 Bomb: 8/22/09 EA: 8/1/09 | PA 12/26/09 W L: 10/21/09 M L: 11/16/09 | 12/09 to file SA W & Boys Move Out: 3/14/10