H's MLC - finding compassion and forgiveness

[Mila]

Thank you Being, Beatrice & Punkin

I should have mentioned that H's family is not coming until February....all I said to H that I don't even know where I'll be by then...for all I know the house may be sold by then....told him that we will have to talk about it....I mean he brought it up in front of his dad, maybe because that way he though it would be harder for me to say NO.

I have been pretty close with his sister's family for 34 years....and I'd like to stay close with them...but I just find the whole situation surreal....We will likely be talking trough lawyers about separation agreement after Xmas, H informed me couple of weeks ago that he wants me out of the company and yet he wants us to be a family and do Xmas together, visits to his dad together as a "family" and now wanting me to have his sister's family stay with me....how weird is that?????