Thanks everyone. I am seeing that ex's life right now is not so good. He is miserable, but I don't think he can figure out why. The brain is just so confused and messed up with emotions, feelings, and bad childhood baggage. It just needs to go through some kind of sorting. In the meantime, he is trying to retaliate from the mediation. Just the usual talking bad about me to everyone he can, including the kids. It will have to play out......again. You really learn not to care what anyone thinks anymore. Really, I don't even know if people believe ex or not when he spews negativity about me.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11