It sounds to me like you are on the right track! Congratulations on making it this far. I think you know you are progressing towards reconcilliation when you see a concerted effort on both partners to make their actions match their words, i.e. walk the talk so to speak. It is easy to say you are going to change or do things differently and much harder to actually do it and on a regular occasion. Are you feeling more trustworthy of your partner, more confident in the relationship? These to me are indicators that you are marking progress. Wishing you the best!