Well i went tobalet yesterday and things were going well. My wife asked me "what if i find out that i made a big mistake 3 or 4 years down the road" to which i replied "we'll cross that bridge when we get to it". She touched me to illustrate how are daughter was acting towards her by patting me on the back. When we werre leaving she asked me how my date with the pharmacist went (which was a lie i told her) and i asked her "why are you curious" to which she responded "yes", i managed to deflect the question and gave no answer. She then asked me "whats with you wearing your shirt open like that, whats that about" (i was wearing a collared shirt and i had it unbuttoned showing my tank top which was a style that i used to wear when i was younger and thinner, and because i lost weight it looked good on me again so i decided to wear that style again.) I managed to deflect that question as well and gave no answer. Well long story short while i was strapping in my youngest daughter i caught her exchanging glances with another man accross the parking lot to which i said "please try not to flirt with other guys n front of me." to which she replied "i wasnt flirting" and when she left she drove over to him and parked beside him and began a conversation. So for whatever progress i made if any i felt it went right down the tubes right in front of me and my stress level shot up and my emotions went crazy in a southward direction. I would have walked away feeling triumphant if it werent for that, any input on this situation and my handling of it would be appreciated. (oh and by the way i didnt lose my cool and confront her over it and i didnt beat the guy with a pipe that was in my trunk in spite of the fact that i felt the very strong urge to.)