I agree with the others. It's first and foremost, no longer on your job description to house and entertain his relatives. If you wanted to, that would be different, but the fact that you have to mull it over says otherwise.
Remember, it's YOUR Christmas too. Using you as Hotel/Maid service is not acceptable.
Merry Christmas Mila.
ME: 54 Him: 51 M: 20 years T: 21 years OW/New wife: 36 Sons & Daughters: 7 (ages 24-36) Bomb: March 4, 2010 He Filed: April 28, 2010 I Contested: May 1, 2010 Standing Down: 11/24/10 Divorced : 05/04/2011