How do you decide when a good time to start paying attention to spouse again? I have practically stopped any sort of contact with my H unless its about the kids but now he seems to be trying to make some sort of contact. He sent youngest over to ask me and older daughter to dinner. He also sent emails about getting a ladder for my dad to use and about going to the commissary to pick up stuff I might need. I don't know if the distance I've created is causing this or if he misses us since he moved out more than he thought he would. Advice would be appreciated. Its only been a couple of weeks.