Fix me, fix my life, win back my wife

[Denver_2010]

Hi SIC. I had a similar conversation with my W tonight where it was mostly negative in the way that it sounded, but where I was somewhat encouraged bc she opened up.

Anyway, my advice to you regarding the issue bw your miom and W is to just go along with what your W wants right now. Buy more time. If and when you can get W to work on M, and get M on more solid footing, then you can address your W's anger towards your mom. I kind of doubt that, in the state that she is in, W is going to be open to an apology from your mom right now anyway.