Mmmm ... I don't think you should have SIL over to stay. She and H are taking advantage, IMHO.

Boundaries sistah, boundaries. Just say, "sorry, no can do. Got other plans."

Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed.
D35,S/D twins28,D22
EA4/04 End? Who knows?
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