My wife and I divorced in August. This is after 4 years of ILYBNILWY and 10 years of marriage. We have twins (a boy and a girl) who are about to turn 7. During those 4 years, we reconciled several times, though never romantically.
We divorced in August and are living separately. She got the house, we have joint custody of the kids, and I got most of the bills. Anyway, I did everything wrong.
I kept hanging around, going over there to cut the lawn, rake leaves, shovel snow etc. I did everything she needed me to do.
Tonight, she says that I am around too much. I told her that I still loved her and she told me that we would never be able to be together again.
I do not accept that, but I am ready to try a new approach. I am devastated and don't know what to do. If you would like to follow my original posts over the last four years, the link is in my sig.
I'm just looking for support, encouragement, and advice. I'm losing my mind.
