And on the sweet side of online dating - got a message today from another 20-something. This one is a pre-med, an American doing Peace Corps work in the Ukraine. He writes:

"I wanted to let you know that I think you are gorgeous. smile Suddenly I regret being so young and so far away."

No, I haven't written to him and I'm not interested in collecting a harem of much-too-young boys. But that was very sweetly put. I am still mystified to find myself, a middle aged woman, the object of young men's desires.