Hi Sue, hub says he isn't coming to this site, it's just that he knows of it now, and I don't trust him not to read it in a moment of desperation. Since he broke into my email account I fear he will invade my privacy in other ways. It's sad because I never used to feel this way, but then again, he never used to feel I would betray him. I've been very depressed lately and don't think I have anything uplifting to offer anyone on this board anyway. Traditionally, January just isn't my month.