Well it's all water under the bridge now. We just have to move forward. Like they say "hindsight is 20/20".
We haven't "talked" since the weekend. I've been avoiding her like the plague. I know I don't think I can keep my cool right now. Besides, let her sweat, I know she's got some emotions happening. And I want to make Christmas happy for the kids. I am detaching from her "drama".
If she comes to her senses fine, and if she files for D fine. I am prepared to deal with both in due course. My hope is the former of course, but I cannot allow myself to think of "what might happen." only whats' going on from day to day. Either way it's going to take a lot of time and patience.
It's difficult to gauge anyone in a MLC and an EA, so I'm not going to spend a whole lot of time thinking (fretting) about it.
Me 53 XW 50 M 18 Years +2 S14 D19 Bomb 10-24-10 Served 1-27-11 Mediate 4-21-11 Civil D Final 6-2-11 No church anullment "A man is not finished when he is defeated, he is finished when he quits."
