WAS/MLC'ers are so selfish. They just can't see the collateral damage they create pretty much unnecessarily IMHO.
One day they will wake up and we have to then decide if we will still have that door open. Welcome to the roller coaster ride of your life and it STINKS.
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M: 48, H: 42 Kids: 0 T: 20 yrs M: 16 yrs. (H's 1st, my 2nd) WAS/MLC: 12/7/09-I'm not the wife HE deserved Came home per L: 12/26/09, Left again: 2/6/10 Served: 10/21/10, D FINAL: 6/15/11
Zengypsy don't know if its mlc or wha(. There isn't anyone else which I know for a fact. She hasn't filed for divorce and we been seperated goin on three months. I have completly quit paying her any attention. Didn't see any positive results till I cut her off completely. Guys have to understand that no amount of begging or crying will work. The only thing u can do is completely ignore her and work on urself
Well hear nothing from her during the Christmas Holidays. As of Monday she will be cut off completely financially and her car will be taken away. She wants to be independant she is going to have to get a job cam use she aint doing it with my money. Havnt talked to her in a week and it feels good. Starting to feel I don't want her back.
Well new development today. May not mean anything but i wrote my wife a letter last week agreeing with our breakup and wishing her well. She didn't contact me all through Christmas, but i find out today she has asked everyone of our friends if they have heard from me. Sad thing is i believe its to late. Im over her and truly could care less what she is doing. To all the waw out there be very careful this will happen with your husbands too.
Need someones opinion. Me and my wife have been separated for three months. For the last week i have cut all contact since the separation and have started living my life without her. She has recently ask several of our friends if they have seen or spoken to me. As of this date she has not filed for divorce or mentioned it to anyone. Is this a positive sign or am i just wishfully thinking.
