HRT: I'm a fellow newbie too! Welcome; just sorry we are all heare under these difficlut circumstances. But we are here together with great support.
Have you read DB or DR? The board vets here offer some great perspectives. Most from what I have seen and read have been through various stages of what we are going through so they are well-versed.
It's def tough around the holidays but you will make it through. We all have each other.
Hang tough and keep the faith.
BITS
M: 48, H: 42 Kids: 0 T: 20 yrs M: 16 yrs. (H's 1st, my 2nd) WAS/MLC: 12/7/09-I'm not the wife HE deserved Came home per L: 12/26/09, Left again: 2/6/10 Served: 10/21/10, D FINAL: 6/15/11