Oh, HRT!!! I'm so very sorry that you find yourself in a similar situation.

Dealing with OW/OM is bad enough - add to that the history of an EW or EH and it just about takes the wind out of you.

I also hope things get better for you as well. Hang in there.

M9+ T 11+
Me42 H44
2 kids under 5
IlYBNILWY -3/10
A discovered late 8/10
H moved out early 9/10 - back two weeks later
"Taking a Break" - H moves out 1/2/10