Need advice and support to keep hope

[Denver_2010]

Sandi - You posted a link to an article on 'detaching' on another thread a while back. I clicked it open but forgot to read it. Do you still have that link? The little that I did read looked like good information.

Sandi & JTB - thanks for defining what 'detaching' means for purposes of DBing. I am working on it. It is really difficult bc I can't get over how my WAW has just left with her step son, is spending all of her free time with OM, contacts me only very rarely, and seemingly has not been affected or saddened by what is happening with our M. Is this normal does it mean that she is done with trying in our marriage (as she has stated) and is over it? I just can't believe it! It is soooo out of character for her.