Uhh...

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she offered to meet me and tell me the "truth".


HER truth. Which ummm, you almost have to ask yourself why? What motive does she have? Your best interest at heart?

I'll give you a moment to stop laughing at that idea.

The only truth you need right now is yours, and what your husband can prove to you.

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She is very high strung, reactive and hot tempered and threatened him with exposing the affair to me and everyone we work with.


I doubt her truth is going to be designed to put you at ease, I'd suspect her truth is more to put you off, make you upset, and undermine your potential choice to rebuild your marriage.

A meeting between you, her and your husband?

Would you each get a gun and a flashlight? : )
And where would you do that TGI Fridays?



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