It is not the competion with OW.....it is all about attitude. He's not attracted, or can't see you b/c he's blinded by his XW. The more you pursue him trying to win over the OW....the more he will turn away. Dropping the rope is the advice I give in this particular stitch.
Calling his XW is competing with her. And it is not dropping the rope.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
