Per the text from OW above, she offered to meet me and tell me the "truth". I feel like I'm owed the complete truth in order to make the correct decision for my future.

I told my husband I was tempted to take her up on her offer and he asked how would I know she's telling the real truth and he isn't? But if we were all in a meeting together...

Would there ever be a valid reason to have a meeting between OW, H and myself?

Or maybe I already have the complete truth: my husband lied and cheated throughout the entire course of my marriage.

M: 37
H: 36
Married: Aug 13, 2004
Decision to Divorce: July 20, 2008
Reconciled: September 2008
Current: Ambivalence