Today, I looked up all the nicest Christmas houses in my town and mapped them out in Google. There are about 20. We are taking a ride with the kids, getting ice cream, listening to Christmas music, and looking at all the lights. There are about 20 houses so it will take about 1.5 hours. then we are headed home for a Christmas movie and some peppermint schnapse (sp).
We have lots of Christmas parties to go to. I think the key here is to not be clingy on the S if they are with you. Christmas parties are a great place to show your WAS that you can socialize and have fun independant from your S. Hang and drink with the guys (or girls if you're a W) and don't worry about what your S is doing. Then bring them a glass of wine or appitizer to be kind and thoughtful and head back to your friends.
Should be a great holiday...
M: 42 - W: 41 - M: 18 - T: 23 - D:16 S:14 EA - July 2010 NC w/EA - Nov 2010 Piecing - Jan 2011 I ask for div - Jan 2012 Div papers filed - Mar 2012 I move out - July 2012 Divorce final - Nov 7, 2012
