Thanks, Sandi. He says he will be moving out after the first so perhaps I'll have an easier time letting go.

So. Question for you folks - H gave me a new cell phone for my b-day (recent). Because I have access to his credit card account, I saw he purchased two on the same day - ex wife uses the same cell phone company and this phone is only compatible with this company. I know he purchased one for her too. Do I just keep my mouth shut on this? It hurts me - pisses me off, etc. I have half a mind to call or text ex wife to let her know just how special we both are to him...

Help!


M9+ T 11+
Me42 H44
2 kids under 5
IlYBNILWY -3/10
A discovered late 8/10
H moved out early 9/10 - back two weeks later
"Taking a Break" - H moves out 1/2/10