You are so wise. I can't believe you and are I nearly the same age (based on your 1st thread). I'm so glad you and your wife worked it out. Your boys are lucky to have a complete family and you deserve to be happy. By the way, my b-day is Ground Hog's Day, too.
I promise I will tell him exactly what I need without feeling afraid to put demands on him. He knows I'm not sure if I want to(or can) work this out with him. I don't feel even a tiny bit bad about making demands and if he can't give me what I need, then he'll have to leave.
I moved out last time, but he knows he'll be the one to leave our home this time around. I'm not sacrificing anymore. I'm not giving 100% of myself anymore without having an honest relationship. He knows these things.
M: 37 H: 36 Married: Aug 13, 2004 Decision to Divorce: July 20, 2008 Reconciled: September 2008 Current: Ambivalence
