My wife told me to snoop. She also said that she will do what she can to help repair the damage.

But my problem is that I hate policing her. I almost feel like a jealous high school boy.

Still though, I have a very hard time believing her right now.

Me:42
W:43
M:03/08/98
SD17, D13
Found out about affair:12/16/10
Found out again: 06/22/12
Split: 06/22/12