The edit function might come back down the road who knows?
Dumped,
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why continue to be with someone who is no longer in love with you and doesn't even want to be with you?
Sadly, what? 50% of America agrees with that.
But your here.
We disagree on what dettaching means. For me it mean not buying into my wife's drama, deflecting her venom, not responding to attacks or rising to the bait, being nice and responding in kind when she was. Trying my best to be teflon but accountable when she wasn't nice.
I was responsible when she attacked me for my failings, but ignored her when her attacks were not valid.
Love can come back, as can feelings, and the want to be around someone, I proved to my wife that I was worth coming back to, and she in turn had to prove to me she was worth the chance I gave her.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
