I am still struggling with the idea of what might occur if W's EA turns into PA.
You shouldn't be making a distinction between EA/PA. If he has her heart, there is nothing she won't do for him.
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sick to my stomach about what is happening.
This is normal. Get some exercise.
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Do you know if you will be able to forgive your wife at any point?
Already have. You must let it go; it's for you, not her.
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Will you take her back?
That depends on a lot of factors, of course. I won't settle for being her second choice. I deserve better. Plenty of beautiful women will put me first; I won't settle for less.
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I feel A LOT of guilt for my behavior and driving her to do this in many ways.
Focus your efforts here. This is something you control.