It is one of those things that are easier done than said. I was pretty desperate for a long time. I attribute it to my specific circumstances. We all think our sitch is unique, but mine really was. Once I came home, good things started to happen and I gained a lot of strength.
J3B is right. Do anything you can to take the pressure off. It is good for everyone.
M:37 W:34 M:4 years T:6 years No Kids A disclosed - 9/1/2010 W asks for separation - 10/19/2010 Moving on - 10/24/2010 A ends (and I believe her) - 12/2010 Content - 3/1/2011 Served - 3/18/2011 D Day - 6/20/2011