sandi2 - a little sass goes a long way...or so my moma told me! Yes, I think sexiness and beauty defy all of the standards, especially when it comes to attitude.

jack - the conflicting messages I have received from H about my weight over the year are staggering. For instance, I asked him to walk with me to encourage physical activity - no dice. I asked him to try to eat healthier at home, he would bring fast food home - including some for me when I hadn't asked. I would tell him I was avoiding the cookies at a meal and his response, "One cookie won't make you fat." Then, he cheated with a girl who is fat! So...yeah.

Me: 33, H: 32
M: 12 years T: 13 years
No kids
D-Day: 7/2009
Separated: 10/12/10
Future Unknown
GITS

"There's a fire starting in my heart, reaching a fever pitch and it's bringing me out the dark." - Adele