I can only reiterate the good advice you've been given. Breathe. Listen to your lawyer. Let him call you.
We all understand the confusion and the panic of feeling like it's almost "over". The best thng you can do for yourself is to stand back from all of that. It's hard to do nothing. It's natural to want some kind of conclusion, but if you can be still and really evaluate where you are, where you want to be and how to get there, it takes the focus (and the pressure) off him and you feel so much better about [i/][i]your[i/][i] life.
My H has gone on several vacations with us and still hasn't come home, so that isn't indicative of anything except that your getting your hopes up (sorry). I understand. I also know there is nothing you can do.
If I may offer you this, even though you are dealing with a D and I am not, my H [b/][i/]emotionally divorced'b][i] me before he left. In his mind that is more real than anything legal. Just sayin', you have to be patient and remember:
Patience is a virtue Virtue is a grace and Grace is a little girl who wouldn't wash her face
