Sounds like she's uncomfortable being in "limbo."
Same as my W. Mine even wanted to settle accounts and remain together as roommates for the kids. I told that's not going to happen. I'm not going to be her roomie, while she lives the single life. If you don't want the D then don't help her get the D. Make her do all the work.


Me 53 XW 50
M 18 Years +2
S14 D19
Bomb 10-24-10
Served 1-27-11
Mediate 4-21-11
Civil D Final 6-2-11
No church anullment
"A man is not finished when he is defeated, he is finished when he quits."