What happens to the WAS after D?

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Well in my case I have only been divorced for one year as of this coming February.

I have almost zero contact with my XW so I do not know if she has a new man or not. She is most likely continuing her online EA with her first love from high school who is married and has five kids. Maybe she is waiting for him to divorce or for his W to croak so they can live happily ever after in cheatersville. I have no clue.

What I do know is that she is now getting a bunch of money from the VA from her first husband from 25 years ago. And if she remarries she will lose that so I dont see that happening any time soon since I suspect this was a major motivating factor in destroying our family in the first place.

It must be nice to be rewarded so generously financially for destroying a marriage, cheating and lying. And all at the tax payer's expense. And yes I am still a bit bitter.

I try to concentrate on my own life now. Being a single middle aged divorced man has its challenges and even a few rewards. But I miss being married. And God help me I miss my old wife and my married life.

Sadly my XW will be 56 years old this coming February and from what my Son tells me she is still acting like a 12 year old spoiled girl living in her castle. I would kill to be able to get inside her head and figure out what sort of screwed up thought paterns caused her to become what she is.