You too! Just remember many things will be done and said to justify her decision. The kids will be fine! You'll be fine. You need to move on. You should find someone better, you deserve that. I'm not in love with you, I don't think I ever really was. Your not attractive to me anymore. I feel trapped. I just wanna be free. THERE IS NO ONE ELSE! My favorite... We will still be friends! Listen hang tough... YOU decide when your done. Either way (and this is still a daily challenge for me) Focus on you and move on like your marriage is over... It may be. Protect yourself and prepare yourself while she's not focused on waging war on you yet... DON'T GET CAUGHT! I've learned with my W, patience pays as far as these little battle with the attorneys go... She is anxious to get this over so usually gives in in the interest of time and money. My W... BIG on getting money now... Obviously she's entitled to her share, but she want's more than what's fair even. So be aware and be careful. It is possible she will keep her word too, but tread lightly. Good Luck! Let God handle what you cannot control and figure out quickly most of this you can't!
