SIC - A few days before my wife left, she snooped into my email account (have no idea how) and found an email from 5 years ago (2 years into our dating, but 3 yrs prior to our marriage). The email was from an old gf and was fairly suggestive. Anyway, I had forgotten that the email even existed let alone still saved in my email account. She immediately accused me of cheating on her 5 years ago. Said that this confirmed her decision to leave. And said that she was p*ssed that i was accusing her of an EA with a guy who she says is just a friend when I was the one that cheated!! She is totally using this email to justify her actions!

BTW - I did not cheat on my wife... at any point. So frustrating.


M 43
X 38
T 13
W moves out of home 11/2010
Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012
I request divorce 5/2012
W moves home 6/2012
Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015
I leave 3/2016
process of divorce