Sorry about that delay happening, hopefully it will clear up after you post for awhile.
Lovingly dettach...
Pretty word that "lovingly"
Beats angsty I suppose.
To me dettach means to not get drawn into their drama, not allow yourself to react to their bad actions either directly toward or in directly. Lovingly, I suppose means...
If you child was throwing a tantrum for no reason, you'd ignore them (possibly), but be around and comfort them later when their tantrum was over.
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let her know that I got US a gift (DB coach)
Want some advice? : )
Don't tell her that.
Pretty standard that most spouses see DBing as a trick to get them back to being married. Heck some people think that just showing their spouse the DR book will be like a magic pill or something and wake them back up into being married.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
