as some of you have read in my original stich can i save my marriage im in quite a delima. To update things are still pretty much the same. She still says she is done and wants out but doesn't want to hurt my feelings. There is still no one else in the picture for her and she does little things here and there but mostly stays home. Ive initiated no contact and have began working on myself and dating a little bit just casual nothing serious. Saturday night i had a guy with me that had to stop by a party my w was at but i sat in the car and didn't get out. he said she asked him who was in the care with him and why he had left the lights on so she couldn't see in. She told a friend that marriage shouldn't be hard and that when two people argue so much and make each other miserable there has to be a point to just get out.
she also called me this morning saying she needs money for the kids Christmas which i gave her. she says she will give it back to me when she gets paid.
Ive initiated no contact and have began working on myself and dating a little bit just casual nothing serious.
Do you think it wise that you are dating IF you are trying to save your M?
Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
John, dating can be playing with fire, even if it's a lifelong friend with no sex.
I am very social and my man is not a jealous type and neither am I. We trust each other and we can. However, I recently went out with a new colleague (when folks are traveling, we often take the person out so they don't eat alone). This guy and I went to a local favorite restaurant of mine. Two coworkers came in and I introduced them. He asked if I was worried that they saw us. Eventually I realized HE was planning to have an affair with me. Funny because he was quoting Harley's books to me earlier in the evening.
So he got shot down, fairly vocally by me, I learned a lesson (I generally know the people that I host a little better).
Just be careful.
sg Love is PATIENT, love is KIND, LOVE never fails / DB since 2001
another bad day. One of my wifes friends tells me that my wife told her she is done amd wants out. W also said when two people make each other miserable there has to be a point to get out. She also told the friend that she didn't wanna hurt my feelings. Now that was a punch to the gut
