I agree with you so much Blessed. You actually made me laugh because it's also insane to me how many GUYS on here that I've met that are going through very similar sitch's!!
I don't know what my breaking point is...but I was speaking with my MIL tonight after my W left for work and I said that I don't want to lose her or her family - she said I wouldn't that she'll always love me and she confused by what her D is doing?
I also agree that this place has been a life saver for me, and if someone my M is saved it will be because of the help and strength I received.
I was thinking about the financial aspect, and I'll do whatever I have to do to provide the best I can for my kids, but I'd be lieing if I didn't say that I;d deeply miss the family vacations (that's one thing my W said has always been great).
Oh I just remembered, my MIL seem to mention that my W was alluding to the fact that I had cheated on her! I have NEVER cheated - EVER! I told my MIL that I would wager my D's lives on it...I think my W is trying to make herself believe things that somehow make her position stronger?!?
Anyways take care, and I will continue to read along and hope for the best for YOU!
Me - 34 W - 33 M - 8 years T - 15 years D7, D5, D2 Bomb Nov 10/2010 "I'm not happy and INILWY" W Staying for the kids Mar 13/2011