He even asked me where I would like to go on a vacation Wednesday night.

This is also an interesting comment from your h. My h all the time would say things into the future like Glam I am going to take you and the kids to ....... or we are going to buy this car.......... This kind of talk was common place for my h.

Left me very confused, since I wanted to really say right you don't even live with me and the kids and were are going to vaction where. I always responded with something like that sounds so wonderful h can't wait. I do believe in my h's mind he really wanted to do those things, but his depression was so deep it kept him from even doing the basics first by coming home. Afterall, when he did finally come home he slept 18-20 hours a day the first 2 months. It was like I was living with a zombie.


Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"