Taking the Long Way #33

[kat727]

I have stayed out of their stuff for quite a while now. I wanted to try to explain my concern about S15 and forcing the staying with him for 10 day issue.

So I tried to not get emotional and reminded him that he said he didn't want my help. I have tried to stay out of this as it is between him and the kids. Yet this is a question where I am really worried that S15 might try to run away from his Dad if he made him stay with him.

Somehow ex got sidetracked onto Christmas. I was just told about that this weekend. Another thing of having to go to their Dad's. They have to work this out. I have no desire to run circles around the issue with ex. The problem with this whole thing is when Christmas is at Grandma's house the boys can go together in S18's car but out of town to Dad's the car isn't so reliable and they feel as if they will be made to stay all day. I hate this stuff.

Thank goodness, only one parent had custody of my brother and I. I have never met my biological mother which does have its own issues but at least I never had to split my time between parents!

kat