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[JR09]

Michelle,

Great to hear from you.Thanks for chiming in. I already have a hotel room reserved ffor the boys and I but I am not sure if W meant "joint activities". The kicker in this trip is that I am actually going to stay up there. I just outprocessed and will go on terminal leave up there. So I'll see the boys during Christmas, the baptism, and more often after that! Not sure how it goes, but I think every other weekend is the norm, isn't it?

So W will see me more often as well. She's asked me if I'll get an apartment,. My plan is to get one as close as possible to where they live. I figured we are not divorced, I am a good father, I don't have any type of restraining order against me, and I can move closer if I want to, so why not?...

In any case, this will either trigger strong feelings of D on W's part, OR possible feelings of reconciliation. Who knows, right? Well, this is it. Gotta shine thru the new me!!!

Joel