Taking the Long Way #33

[MichelleLT]

No, you can't teach them to be their Dad.

You can teach the kids to express their hurt and ask him for what they want/need though. It might have a bit more of an effect coming from them.

Anything from you will just be seen as interference or even the cause of the problem. It's the same blame game as before the D. So just stay out of it. Be there for the kids, but don't make it too easy on your ex by shielding him either.